Sexuality is an instinct imprinted into the genes of each living creature. Attraction to the opposite sex has been the major factor behind reproduction and survival of each species. Most of the species are born with only seasonal sexual needs. They couple and reproduce only within a limited time in a year.
Human beings have active sexual instincts all through their life right from the very day they discover their sexuality in pre-adulthood. This instinct has found to be overpowering the actual advancement gained over the past.
Sexuality is only sexuality for other animals. Humans have restricted forms of sexuality like premarital sexuality and extra-marital sexuality. The reason behind establishing this limitation is because humans live in a civilized society with standards of morality, values and cultural obligations. The society always clamors for mature relationships and mutual respect among her members. The aim of bringing in the sexual limitation is that each member of the society should be given respect and not regarded as instruments of satisfying lust.
What is premarital sexuality?
Though human being gains the physical and mental maturity of procreation at the beginning of puberty, he/she is qualified to marry and reproduce much later, may be after 18-20 years of age; and also the society insists that a sexual practice outside marriage is improper and illicit.
Premarital sexuality is any sexual activity with opposite sex partner before he/she has started a married life. The term is used to refer to the intercourse before the legal age/time of marriage.
Consequences of premarital sex
They are as follows:
Feeling of regret
This is mostly encountered by the young ladies when the men take the best part of their lives and dump them for other ladies. They live with this regret of losing something precious for someone who doesn’t worth it.
Unwanted pregnancy
This practice of sharp-sharp sex contributes to some of unwanted pregnancies among students and others. Sharp-sharp is carried out mostly in party venues and some of them drink and engage in sex without condom and non-dating persons.
Drug misuse/abuse
Drug use and misuse is common among the males. Premarital sex can lead to drug use. Some people use drugs to enhance sex performance which has made some become drug addict. In some cases, some people take drugs after having a broken relationship. Some even take alcohol, hard drugs, smoke etc. They don’t really want to but engage in these things to ease the sorrow of sex act and disappointments.
Bondage
This is a situation where somebody is expected to always have sex on regular basis with an individual because the person knows ones weakness, weak points or secrets. Another issue is that it is not easy for someone who started premarital sex to stop the act.
Loss of self-respect
For those involved in premarital sex, there is no respect for one another.
Corruption of character
Engaging in premarital sex can lead to corruption of a person’s character. It reduces virtues such as dignity, respect, strengths, honesty, care, fairness and self-control. Some people lie about themselves and their family background if they think it will help them have sex. Sex corrupts character by leading people to tell lies etc.
Depression
Studies reveal that most victims of rape, those who got unwanted pregnancies and those caught in act of sodomy tend to be more depressed than others who engage in premarital sex. Depression as a result of premarital sex is associated with people who engage in sex for economic reasons, love reasons and influence reasons etc. they might get involved in an activity where they get infected with viruses. Sometimes, they sleep with snakes and other animals for rituals.
Fear of future commitment
Premarital sex relationships can bring bitter experience in the attempt to form normal sex relationships. Emotions like anger, impatience, jealousy and selfishness occurs especially when a partner feels he/she has had enough of it. Many people keep away from relationships as a result of fear of broken relationships.
Sexually transmitted diseases
Engaging in premarital sex can lead to sexually transmitted disease such as herpes, sores, syphilis, gonorrhea, painful swelling of genitalia, pelvic pain, painful urination and human immune deficiency virus (HIV) which is the virus that kills the immune system. Those who engage in group sex, sharp-sharp sex are exposed to all these diseases.
Feeling of guilt
Those that engage in premarital sex have the feeling of guilt
Poor academic performance
Engaging in premarital sex can negatively affect academic performance. Some students move from one social club to another always after pleasures thereby devoting little or no time to their studies and also suffering from emotional problem that comes with it. Little or no time for studies, no concentration and as a result, academics is adversely affected leading to poor performance.
Loss of family/parents support
Parents may reduce support to their sexually wayward children. When parental support is withdrawn, the person becomes depressed, stressed, disappointed and if the person is a student, will be isolated from the school campus community.
Victims of rituals
There is no doubt that this situation might happen. The person that engaged in premarital sex can become a victim of ritual depending on the circumstances that follow.
How to prevent premarital sex cases
Premarital sex is not accepted by any modern society, yet stories of adolescent fathers and mothers are increasing especially from the highly civilized European nations. Modern lifestyle has opened multiple opportunities for guys and ladies to interact deeply in public and private. They have ample chances to experiment the sexuality which they witness through internet and televisions etc.
Law can only threaten people and can never make them not to do something. An effective way of reducing premarital love making is spreading awareness of healthy sexuality among children. Awareness of healthy sexuality is not the knowledge of safe sexuality. Good values and behaviors should be inculcated in children. Charity starts in the family. Train them to associate with others in a mature way. Inspire them to have mutual respect for man and woman from the very childhood. A growing child should learn to accept people as men and women, the equal partners of life on earth, not as object to fulfill hasty wishes and ambitions. Sex education is necessary. Young Adults need to get the right information about sex and sex education to avoid being persuaded by uninformed peer group.
Human beings have active sexual instincts all through their life right from the very day they discover their sexuality in pre-adulthood. This instinct has found to be overpowering the actual advancement gained over the past.
Sexuality is only sexuality for other animals. Humans have restricted forms of sexuality like premarital sexuality and extra-marital sexuality. The reason behind establishing this limitation is because humans live in a civilized society with standards of morality, values and cultural obligations. The society always clamors for mature relationships and mutual respect among her members. The aim of bringing in the sexual limitation is that each member of the society should be given respect and not regarded as instruments of satisfying lust.
What is premarital sexuality?
Though human being gains the physical and mental maturity of procreation at the beginning of puberty, he/she is qualified to marry and reproduce much later, may be after 18-20 years of age; and also the society insists that a sexual practice outside marriage is improper and illicit.
Premarital sexuality is any sexual activity with opposite sex partner before he/she has started a married life. The term is used to refer to the intercourse before the legal age/time of marriage.
Consequences of premarital sex
They are as follows:
Feeling of regret
This is mostly encountered by the young ladies when the men take the best part of their lives and dump them for other ladies. They live with this regret of losing something precious for someone who doesn’t worth it.
Unwanted pregnancy
This practice of sharp-sharp sex contributes to some of unwanted pregnancies among students and others. Sharp-sharp is carried out mostly in party venues and some of them drink and engage in sex without condom and non-dating persons.
Drug misuse/abuse
Drug use and misuse is common among the males. Premarital sex can lead to drug use. Some people use drugs to enhance sex performance which has made some become drug addict. In some cases, some people take drugs after having a broken relationship. Some even take alcohol, hard drugs, smoke etc. They don’t really want to but engage in these things to ease the sorrow of sex act and disappointments.
Bondage
This is a situation where somebody is expected to always have sex on regular basis with an individual because the person knows ones weakness, weak points or secrets. Another issue is that it is not easy for someone who started premarital sex to stop the act.
Loss of self-respect
For those involved in premarital sex, there is no respect for one another.
Corruption of character
Engaging in premarital sex can lead to corruption of a person’s character. It reduces virtues such as dignity, respect, strengths, honesty, care, fairness and self-control. Some people lie about themselves and their family background if they think it will help them have sex. Sex corrupts character by leading people to tell lies etc.
Depression
Studies reveal that most victims of rape, those who got unwanted pregnancies and those caught in act of sodomy tend to be more depressed than others who engage in premarital sex. Depression as a result of premarital sex is associated with people who engage in sex for economic reasons, love reasons and influence reasons etc. they might get involved in an activity where they get infected with viruses. Sometimes, they sleep with snakes and other animals for rituals.
Fear of future commitment
Premarital sex relationships can bring bitter experience in the attempt to form normal sex relationships. Emotions like anger, impatience, jealousy and selfishness occurs especially when a partner feels he/she has had enough of it. Many people keep away from relationships as a result of fear of broken relationships.
Sexually transmitted diseases
Engaging in premarital sex can lead to sexually transmitted disease such as herpes, sores, syphilis, gonorrhea, painful swelling of genitalia, pelvic pain, painful urination and human immune deficiency virus (HIV) which is the virus that kills the immune system. Those who engage in group sex, sharp-sharp sex are exposed to all these diseases.
Feeling of guilt
Those that engage in premarital sex have the feeling of guilt
Poor academic performance
Engaging in premarital sex can negatively affect academic performance. Some students move from one social club to another always after pleasures thereby devoting little or no time to their studies and also suffering from emotional problem that comes with it. Little or no time for studies, no concentration and as a result, academics is adversely affected leading to poor performance.
Loss of family/parents support
Parents may reduce support to their sexually wayward children. When parental support is withdrawn, the person becomes depressed, stressed, disappointed and if the person is a student, will be isolated from the school campus community.
Victims of rituals
There is no doubt that this situation might happen. The person that engaged in premarital sex can become a victim of ritual depending on the circumstances that follow.
How to prevent premarital sex cases
Premarital sex is not accepted by any modern society, yet stories of adolescent fathers and mothers are increasing especially from the highly civilized European nations. Modern lifestyle has opened multiple opportunities for guys and ladies to interact deeply in public and private. They have ample chances to experiment the sexuality which they witness through internet and televisions etc.
Law can only threaten people and can never make them not to do something. An effective way of reducing premarital love making is spreading awareness of healthy sexuality among children. Awareness of healthy sexuality is not the knowledge of safe sexuality. Good values and behaviors should be inculcated in children. Charity starts in the family. Train them to associate with others in a mature way. Inspire them to have mutual respect for man and woman from the very childhood. A growing child should learn to accept people as men and women, the equal partners of life on earth, not as object to fulfill hasty wishes and ambitions. Sex education is necessary. Young Adults need to get the right information about sex and sex education to avoid being persuaded by uninformed peer group.
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